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How to avoid Mother's Day Disappointment (and not feel guilty about it)

This is your day: a day that celebrates the blood, sweat, tears, love, kisses, hugs, long nights, early mornings, and reheated cups of coffee that you have sacrificed for your the tiny human(s) you made!

I think every mom has some expectation of what Mother's Day should be like, and I don't know a single one of us that hasn't felt a little let down or disappointed at the end of the day, followed by feelings of guilt for not being more grateful for the family we have and the effort they made. 

Maybe you just wanted lunch at your favourite restaurant, or a relaxing pedicure in the middle of the day. You might have hoped for breakfast in bed, with handmade cards slid underneath a hot cup of coffee, with the only three words that matter in the world. Maybe you just wanted a nap! 

Are you selfish? No. 
Are you worth it? Yes!
So, how can you have the mothers day you hope for? 

Tell them what you'd like.

It's actually THAT simple. 

What are the little things you long for to make you feel special, valued, and celebrated? Those things; say them.

It might feels a bit strange or contrived to clearly communicate what you want; it's not something we are well rehearsed at doing. But how many partners would breathe a sigh of relief if they knew exactly what it would take to make your Mothers Day special, to celebrate all you do and who you are to your family? I'd venture to guess it would be more than few. 

We aren't always the best at clearly communicating our needs, carving out time for ourselves, or asking for what we wish for. But this day? Its 'll about you, so why don't you tell the ones that love you the most, exactly what it would take to make you feel like their queen? It just might be the best Mother's Day yet. 

Top Picks Tuesday || 10 of the Best Baby Hacks

Top Picks Tuesday – 10 Best Baby Hacks for New Parents

Today we are giving away our top 10 baby hacks for new parents.  Adjusting to life with baby has many interesting aspects and challenges, and we hope to offer a few practical solutions to make your days smoother, happier, and a little bit more convenient! 

1.       The Onesie Hack – Those little folds at the top of your onesie?  They aren’t just to get your newborns adorable head through the top of their shirt! Avoid an even messier poop-explosion clean up by using the folds to expand the opening of the diaper shirt to pull the diaper shirt off towards their feet, rather than having to carefully avoid smearing the mess even further up their back and over their head. Genius!

2.       The Sock Hack – Are your newborns feet slipping out of the legs of his sleeper? After you dress your baby, slip socks over top of his sleeper on his feet to keep his legs in place. Losing too many of those tiny little socks? Keep the dirty socks in zippered, mesh laundry bag for washing and never lose another pair to the dryer.

3.       The Teething Hack – Twist a baby washcloth and dip it in breast milk or sterilized water, gently wring out, and put in a bag in the freezer. Baby can hold on to the dry portion of the cloth and chew on the frozen part for some serious gum-soothing action. A thick, raw carrot or sprig of celery (try to choose organic), cold out of the fridge, also works well (before baby has teeth enough to bite off a chunk!)

4.       The Sound-Asleep Hack – Is baby waking up to every small noise you make? Try putting a sleep sheep nearby for a soft-white noise, or you can purchase a white noise machine at most drugstores, equipped with multiple noise options and volume settings. In a pinch, you can download apps on your phone or tablet with white noise options. Just be sure to turn off your other bleeps and ringers that might startle a peacefully sleeping baby.

5.       The Poop-Stain Hack – Has your baby made her mark on every sleeper and onesie you own? You’re not alone. Blue dawn (yes, it needs to be blue), is a miracle stain remover for those stubborn stains. Rinse out the soiled sleeper, apply a small amount of blue dawn, scrub, let soak for a few minutes, and wash as normal. This trick will often work on unwashed, dried stains that nothing else will touch.

6.       The Hook Hack – Love the idea of the “Mommy Hook”, but don’t love the $20+ price tag? Check your local dollar store or hardware store for a similar version of this large carabineer hook that moms are raving about! Hook it to your diaper bag or stroller as a convenient place to attach loose items that you don’t have the extra hands to carry.

7.       The Pumping Hack  - Hoping to try out pumping and bottle feeding but afraid of wasting that precious liquid gold? If you aren’t sure if or how much your baby will take in a bottle, freeze your breast milk in icecube trays, store in freezer bags, and defrost as needed! 2 icecubes = about 1 oz of liquid.

8.       The Shoe Hack – Shoe shopping without baby and unsure of which size you need? Trace your baby's feet ahead of time and bring it along in your purse or diaper bag to take the guess work out of choosing the right fit.

9.       The Baby-in-a-Basket Hack – As your baby is learning to sit up, a laundry basket can make a convenient and portable play area. Make a cozy nest with a blanket and some toys in a laundry basket or shallow storage tub, and support your sitting or almost-sitting infant inside for some portable/pack-able playtime. It’s best to keep your baby close and within sight (it’s not a guaranteed spill-free setup). Some parents will use the laundry basket as a contained area inside the bathtub while baby is still learning to sit up; plan to keep baby within arms reach at all times using this idea!  

10.   The Wipe Hack – Have you ditched disposable wipes for cloth? Rather than running to the washroom to soak and wring out your wipes for each diaper change, try using a wipe-warmer instead. Soak and ring out your wipes in your chosen solution, roll up, and store in wipe container. When your wipes are used up, change the soaking solution and start over again. 

What are your favorite baby-hacks? What tricks or baby-products made life with baby just a little bit easier? Let us know!